Are you ever overwhelmed with thoughts of being a mom?
My main advice is to take one day at a time. You don't need to figure out the next 18 years. You don't even need to think about the next 18 months. Worries can bog you down. Instead focus on what you have going for you today. And make a plan for the most important thing you have to do first. Once that's taken care of, only then do you need to think about the next step.